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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with just give $19k to each child from each of you ($38k total given in two checks). None to spouse, spouse is getting it through his spouse. That’s how my parents do it. It’s fair that way. My husband would never wonder why my parents didn’t write a separate check with his name on it- when they give us the check we think of it as them giving it to “us.” And we would ALWAYS assume the exact same amount is given to sibling. [/quote] +1 And aside from fairness issues, so many marriages don’t last. I wouldn’t be giving money directly to daughter’s spouse.[/quote]
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