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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have what we call a "proof of life photo" agreement with my college kids.

About 2-3 times per month, just text me a selfie of yourself doing something.  They are already doing this on Snapchat with their friends, so it is not an inconvenience for them.  They text when they take off on trips and when they arrive, as a general safety practice so someone has their agenda in case an emergency happens.

I also have all their debit card info viewable on my banking app.  If I don't see any charges for a few days beyond what is normal for them, I reach out.

If we contact them about anything involving university finances, such as messed up tuition charges, or anything involving health, emergencies or elderly grandparents, they must respond that day.  Basically,  anything critical or time sensitive requires a response, as that is a basic adulting skill.

Otherwise, they are busy living their lives, so we just wait for them to check in.  They know if ai send them something like a funny video or news story, I don't expect a response.  That is one way I show that I am thinking of them, but it is okay if they don't text back.

We didn't call our parents daily or weekly in college.  It will be okay.[/quote]

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