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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s your concern for your child then bases on this text to you?[/quote]

Dad is expressing regret. I don’t want to deprive my child of a relationship w/their father, but his past behavior has shown he isn’t a person to trust. Dad deprived child from a relationship with him, purposely.

I don’t want to harm my child by exposing them to a someone who may end up adding another layer of trauma and pain into their lives.[/quote]

NP - I agree with your conclusion to provide your ex the therapist's contact information. I would not engage in any conversation or interaction with ex other than to say you 100% support a relationship between him and his son and here's therapist's contact information.

I understand that you have hope, but at this point it's highly likely that your ex isn't going to change his behavior at all. Or if he does, it won't last. It's much better for the therapist to facilitate this with you there as emotional support for your son.[/quote]

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