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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh come on. I was separated for years before the divorce went through b/c ExDH fought tooth and nail over every microscopic issue (he actually went ballistic at one point over a used stairmaster machine). Divorce would have happened in five minutes if it had been up to me. After a year, i started dating. Should I have let his foot-dragging keep me from moving on romantically? for years? Sometimes footdragging over a divorce is an abusive effort to control. [/quote] Again, big difference between this and not telling your spouse you actually want a divorce. Trial separations should end with conversations about permanent status change, not revelations of new relationships. He said the same thing either way, but there's a way to do this without being an asshat and this ain't it.[/quote]
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