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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you talked to a divorce lawyer now that his income has gone up? Maybe you could renegotiate it. Also "it was worth some tradeoffs I had to make for my own" - what sort of tradeoffs did you make? It sounds like you did may have made too many, frankly. Here's one thing I will say. My mom grew up poor, managed to go to college and marry my dad who had some family money and a successful career. I always felt like on some level she was jealous of me, for having so much more than she did growing up. I remember her once sneering at me, "poor little rich girl" when I was stressing out about my law school gpa limiting my ability to find the top flight jobs I wanted. She made a comment about how I probably would not have gotten in were it not for my dad. Not sure - my LSAT and gpa were slightly above the median for the school. Anyway, try not to let a jealousy dynamic creep into your relationship with your kids.[/quote] I meant to add - my parents were still married. It's not like my mom was a poor divorced single mom. She was jealous of me even though I was living the same standard of living she was currently. [/quote]
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