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[quote=Anonymous]IMO, I would be ok with my 28 yr old living at home, paying rent, cooking their own food, cleaning up after themselves. Basically, they'd be a tenant. But, I also feel this way because I want to travel for long periods, and want someone to be in the house when I'm gone. I'm trying to convince one of my kids to stay in the house after graduation. LOL If they are working FT, paying their own way, I don't think I would have as much of an issue with this. But, if they are not doing those things, yes, this is a problem. Your DH is definitely enabling her. Is he thinking some guy is going to swoop in and take care of her? Bad idea. One, that may never happen, and then what? Two, even if that happens, no guarantee that the man is not abusive or cheats on her. Then what? He's basically made her dependent on someone else such that she would have to put up with the abuse. As the saying goes: a man is not a plan.[/quote]
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