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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]why? why is this work? He wants to be social. He should.[/quote] Both parents have to do it for the kids sake as well. Raising hermits is easy. And vice versa. Of course, hermits can and will beget more hermits. Nurture plus nature. [/quote] No, they don’t both have to do this. I’m not depressed, I’m an introvert. I do an enormous amount for my family. The least DH can do is be in charge of the social calendar, and as an extrovert he is. He arranges dinners, and I happily host them (I’m not an anxious hostess, and I like being at home and making other people happy with good food and parties). But I am not doing playdates and have never done them. My other mom acquaintances LOVE the fact DH does the play dates in our house, they can send their kids with their husbands who are less likely to do it, and they get a break! We don’t have to be besties, I think they prefer not having to do it![/quote]
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