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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hiding sexual history is a moral and ethical fraud. Hiding financial history before signing a legal contract is criminal fraud. [/quote]

There is is way verifying if a man was sleeping with dozens of women or not . Listen, unless it’s a very young marriage between people in early 20s every has had a past. Even if a woman is sleeping with one man a year if single she will have over 10 partners by her 30s. Is it a lot or not ? It’s also very subjective.

All these men on OLD must be sleeping with someone. Average age gap at marriage is 2 years; average ahe 30-35 yo. Are they sleeping their way through to find a 30 yo virgin ? Even if they do, would they be happy and satisfied with that woman ?

A lot of men have a Madonna-Whore complex which is one of the most damaging deviation for female sex expression in marriage. Too many men need to do a serious mental work what they want to find in a wife: excellent sexual chemistry , or just the  mother. Because for 30 yo virgins that may not go together.

I will decline a question about number of prior sex partners as inappropriate, stupid  and crossing boundaries, as I can’t verify his prior sex history.

A man should look instead into objective criteria to judge if the woman treats sex as something that deeply connected people do. How soon did she jump in bed with you ? Chances are, if it was on date 1-2, she does it with everyone. Did she ask for STD test and provided hers ? If not, chances are she gives BJ without asking to everyone. And so on.

A smart man would figure out if the woman comes across as promiscuous 
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