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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this a novel idea? My aunt did this with my uncle. I know lots of other who have done the same.[/quote]

It's not novel, but she is getting a ton of judgment and backlash. My own mother was so afraid of being judged for putting my dad in Memory care that she kept him at home with 24-7 caregivers until she completely lost her mind and was lashing out at him. It was better for everyone when he was properly placed. He didn't know anyone and didn't seem to feel abandoned, just calmer and relieved and he enjoyed visits with these well-rested strangers. She could take more care of herself too, but she was so obsessed with keeping up appearances that the shame overwhelmed her. She even commented how much happier he was (until he declined more), but that just made her feel guilty. Caregivers are not superhuman. I did this post to say no judgment, just accolades for Bruce Willis's wife. It's healthier for everyone involved and that includes Bruce. The chaos of his adorable kids may have been too much for him in his state. Controlled visits to see dad in a peaceful and quiet setting and then a trip to a place where the kids and burn energy and be boisterous kids is the perfect combo.[/quote]

Haven't seen any judgement or backlash but then I am not paying that much attention.[/quote]

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