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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't date either or you. Who needs more crap? He is trying to create emotional distance between you. All the special days and need for gifts is the opposite of being able to do that. Not a good match.[/quote] OP here. I think this is right about him trying to create emotional distance. And yes of course it’s not about the actual gift. [b]Giving birthday and Christmas gifts is just something people who love each other do for each other customarily.[/b] And we had done this all before so it’s a shift. This isn’t the only sign that he’s trying to create emotional distance. It’s just the most obvious, concrete one.[/quote] For YOU. I don’t mind gifts but they’re not remotely that important to me or my husband. We show each other our love primarily in other ways. But if gifts are important to you then find someone who feels the same or who cares enough that you feel feel that way. [/quote]
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