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It's not about you. Really. Your BIL is a mess. You need to include SIL when making plans. [/quote]

This +100 this. Stop making a big deal about it this time, and make sure SIL is part of any discussions in the future.[/quote]

DH and I have been married longer (BIL and SIL are younger). We don’t text each other’s families. That’s never been a problem with anyone but BIL/SIL after they got married and had kids.[/quote]

Right, because people with small kids are less flexible and more stressed. SIL might have been okay with short notice visits and flaky BIL in the past but now she isn't. Anyone that has kids would understand this. Sorry your DH is clueless and your BIL sucks. Team SIL.[/quote]

We have kids, so nice assumption there. That’s why I asked DH to give at least 3 weeks notice. I also treated him like a toddler and asked to see his texts so I knew he notified them early enough.

I’m not going to visit again because ugh drama and it’s not my family so not my problem.[/quote]

I think you are making this a much bigger deal than it is. BIL dropped the ball. SIL was annoyed. You can move past this.[/quote]

No, I’m just not going to make plans to visit on our own. And I’m not going to hold my breath expecting an invitation either. That’s the opposite of making a big deal out of it.[/quote]

You seem pretty offended. Maybe get over yourself.[/quote]

Not offended. Just moving on. I was leaning that way anyway and this thread confirms it.[/quote]

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