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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m sorry, because this sounds a lot like my DH, down to the angry outbursts when his sleep was disturbed and frustration with illness and injury.

In my case I did convince him at one point to talk to his doctor and his doctor diagnosed him with depression and anxiety and prescribed medication and referred him to therapy. For a while, DH took his medication daily and was going to therapy consistently. Then therapy fell away. And then he became angry again and I got worried. I asked him if he was still taking his meds and he confessed that he frequently forgot. Then it became diatribes about how medicine and doctors weren’t real. And then he just stopped taking it altogether while lying to me and his doctor about it.

We are now in the process of divorce because of his abuse of me and the kids, and he is blindsided and insists he is a good dad and DH. No, he was relentlessly angry and unpredictable for years and like yours he put his comfort first and I became basically the sole parent for the protection of my children. I would have left earlier but felt I had to wait until they were old enough to communicate and use phones/report, since absent blatant physical abuse there will be share custody. I go back and forth about if waiting was the right decision.

I’m really sorry you’re going through this.[/quote]

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