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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm very introverted and this would make me cringe. But to each their own, I guess. My circle has all sent at least one kid to college, and no one cried during a party. They sniff a bit in the car while returning home after dropping off their kid. But if they had a graduation party AND a goodbye party, maybe they're the type to emote in public.[/quote]

Yes, it made me and my husband a little uncomfortable. We totally empathize with them but it was a bit awkward. [/quote]

OP, you need to figure out why parents expressing love for their kid and showing emotion makes you feel “awkward.”

MYOB. You sound like an a**.[/quote]

Sorry, I'm an introvert and I think it's the overtly emotional who are rude and weird. I don't want to see that.[/quote]

Being "overtly emotional" isn't the opposite of being an introvert. Even introverts can display emotion. I think you sre confusing introvert with some other trait....

Look, I was a rock until right before my kid left this weekend.

I have a great 30  year marriage..we were together/married for 18 years before we had a child.

But our kid..wow. we love them so much. And it has been MUCH harder than expected. We figured it would feel like before they came. Boy, were we wrong.

So now...this robot of a human is crying quietly on a plane with strangers around. .

If it had been my family and friends who I feel safe with...yeah...I probably would have cried not so quietly [/quote]

But you haven't yet. And probably never will. Crying quietly a plane is OK. Inviting people over to see you cry is not.[/quote]
I don't think the normally super composed SIL invited people over intending to cry. It's an emotional time and being with people you love can sometimes bring on unexpected tears.[/quote]

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