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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dating multiple partners makes building trust very hard, but some of the most intense and sincere relationships I've had post divorce were not exclusive. A lot of people can form a really strong emotional connection even though they have trouble with commitment.  The lack of commitment may actually make it easier to form the emotional connection for some people.  Other people just feel nervous, cold, or angry when the relationship isn't exclusive. A lot of DCUM people think that's nuts, or a lie, but it's true for some people.  Obviously the people like that aren't usually a good match for the people who need commitment to be comfortable, sexual, etc. [/quote]

As a woman, I found the same. But I can't continue having sex with a man after maybe 3 nights together. When it gets too intense and we "progress" through more intense play, the issue of removing protection and liquids exchange would come up. I just feel frozen and disgusted, can't progress with relationship if I think he might be having unprotected anal with someone when I give him BJ etc. I dumped several men when it got to this stage just stopped seeing them leaving them puzzled as to why. I would never request exclusivity a man should offer that. All I can say I'm no longer comfortable thats all

How do you address this issue sleeping with multiple women? [/quote]

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