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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has anyone ever watched the movie Booksmart? I feel like that is OPs situation. She feels like she did everything "right" and in the end she isn't rewarded specially for it. She just winds up divorced like many of the people she saw messing around and having fun. There is a lot of gray area between being a liar and a cheat and being a good person as you see it. I fall in that grey area. I skipped classes. I drank and partied underage and used recreational drugs. I slept around. But in the end, I'm a good wife, friend, and mom. And I have a good job. The reckless parts of my life when I was younger didn't define who I am as a person. I don't think you need to change who you are. I think you just need to figure out how to view things as not so black and white between good and bad and why do bad people get to have a good life when you've been good and you don't get to. Because a lot of those "bad " people aren't actually bad. [/quote] Skipping class and drinking doesn’t make you a bad person. Being mean and selfish is what defines a bad person. [/quote]
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