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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does ADHD have to do with anything? As a person with ADHD, I was someone who always wanted different things. if they're picky eaters that's because they're picky eaters, not because of ADHD.[/quote]

I disagree... Kids with ADHD are known to 1) be less hungry when on meds due to appetite suppression 2) want to carb load when the meds wear off and 3) be more prone to want to eat the same things over and over. [/quote]

Considering the traits of ADHD are impulsivity, and I have ADHD and can tell you impulsive eating is a real problem, I think you just have a kid with ADHD who also for other reasons has been trained up as a picky eater.[/quote]

Yes- if you read, #2 above is about impulsivity. No one is "trained" as a picky eater. #3 is related to hyperfixating. These are well documented traits - while you are sharing one experience.[/quote]

[b]picky eating is entirely trained.[/b]

They are not well-documented traits, you're just assigning things to ADHD because it's easier than dealing with the root causes. [/quote]

OK, I'll bite: picky eating is not entirely trained. If you haven't learned this yet, you may be on the wrong forum.

The pickiest eaters in my broader family and friend group are born to parents who didn't make a separate kids meal, didn't cater, shared diverse family meals and involved kids in cooking, ate a variety of meals at home and out, etc etc etc. Sometimes it's just the kid's needs and that's OK. Sometimes the parents have to prioritize their relationship with the child, and the child's relationship with food, rather than forcing them to eat something that feels wrong to them. [/quote]

not entirely, but mostly trained.

Kids will generally eat what is provided to them. If you give your kids chicken tenders and cheese pizza and hamburgers wiht no toppings, that's what they'll expect. If you say things like "let me take that lettuce off for you" or "you wouldn't like this, it's spicy!" you're going to wind up with kids who are picky. Kids are naturally inquisitive and go through phases of levels of interest, but generally if you provide good options, the kids are happy to take them. If you only offer your kids basic crappy food, and frame the subject as something they're not ready for, you're going to get exactly that.

My ILs are always stunned that we allow our kids to eat Mexican food—but they're young, it's too spicy! What the hell do you think kids eat in Mexico? Why can't kids eat sushi?

Anyway, none of this has to do with ADHD.[/quote]

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