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[quote=Anonymous]Everyone is giving you practical answers OP, but this is likely actually something much deeper. Have you experienced financial precariousness in the past where things went upside down financially for you or your parents when you were a child? You may have some trauma there. Have you ever been punished in some way for your success? For example a boss being threatened by you or a social cost to your professional success? You may worry that’s a pattern that will repeat. Do you have some imposter syndrome around the job? You may feel deep down you aren’t worthy of the salary. These are just examples, but usually fear of it all going away is about something much deeper than just the dollar amount of your emergency fund or the stability of your industry. If you can identify the trigger it may give you some peace to see it as what it actually is. [/quote]
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