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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][img][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD is 18 and will be a senior this fall. She’s had the same boy best friend since sophomore year. They’ve always been completely platonic.

In the past I’ve let this boy hang out in DD’s bedroom, even with the door closed. It’s never been a problem.

The boy has been out of town for the summer but they keep in touch through calls and texting. Lately ive had an inkling that they might be developing feelings for each other. I wouldn’t be surprised if they start dating when he returns this fall.

If they start dating I definitely don’t want him in DD’s bedroom, but I don’t know exactly how to present this to her. I don’t feel comfortable telling her that I think she might start dating her friend. I don’t want to push her in that direction. How should I proceed?  [/quote]

If they’re going to boink, they’re going to boink. It matters little whether or not they are allowed by you to use her room. [/quote]

Yes, they will figure out a way to do it if they want to but why encourage it and make it easier for them? Allowing them to hang out in a closed bedroom screams, "Go for it, kids. Bonk away!"[/quote]

Not really, it says that you did your job asa a parent to educate the child and trust her judgement.

Maybe they want some privacy to have a personal conversation.

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18 YOs do not have good “judgment.”  I don’t care how well they are raised. [/quote]

Your “judgement” is not that great either.[/quote]
I spent 75K on my divorce 30 years ago, and my one free takeaway, was that judgment is spelled "judgment".

I don't know if you are trying to do a gotcha on the spelling, but if you are in the US, I think you just "failed".

Here is AI on judgment vs judgement:

The words "judgment" and "judgement" are essentially the same, referring to the ability to make considered decisions or the outcome of a decision, particularly in legal contexts. The difference lies primarily in spelling, with "judgment" being the preferred spelling in American English and "judgement" being more common in British English. [/quote]

Ah, of course you’re long time divorced. No surprise here.[/quote]

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