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[quote=Anonymous]OP, fast forward 5 years and you will be posting on this forum about how you have a toddler and just had a difficult birth with baby #2 but your DH does nothing to help around the house, has not been emotionally supportive during your recovery and hides in his home office claiming he has to “work”.  Stop gaslighting yourself!!  It may feel like things are “wonderful” but I think you need to take a very honest look at his behavior and ask yourself if this is a man you can depend on when life gets hard, and it will.  Is this the man you can count on to put your needs and the needs of your future family first when you are in the trenches? The problem isn’t so much his selfishness in how he handled the move.  It’s not weird that someone who has been living by themselves will need to learn and adjust to a shared living space and the respect and consideration that goes along with it.  As others have said though, the HUGE red flag was how dismissive he was of your concerns even though his own inaction and bungling of his move is what led to your stress!  So rude, dismissive and entitled.  Yikes.  Do not have children with this person whatever you do.[/quote]

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