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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd tell them to back the F off. They are not living in current times, their opinion is neither accurate nor wanted. [/quote] There are better, more respectful ways to handle this. Most grandparents have the best intentions for their grandchildren and their comments are often rooted in a good place. They just want “the best” for their grandchildren (and adult children!). However, they don’t always understand that the definition of “the best” has expanded. There are ways to make them feel involved and appreciated in this process without you or your kid losing your sanity- change the subject politely if it comes up. Talk about your other kids’ things. Talk about the news. If you feel comfortable, buy them a mug or shirt from a college visit or share pictures from that visit. Get them excited about the schools your kid is looking at. [/quote]
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