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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is something that’s a personal boundary thing.  If it’s a dealbreaker for you, then you need to tell your SO that this is a big deal and you are willing to end the relationship over it.
  I don’t think this is necessarily something that everyone would break up over though.  Some people are more comfortable with swearing than others.  Both swearing themselves and hearing others swear.  
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The OP says being called names, not general swearing.  I think there's a huge difference between yelling "I'm so $*#( mad right now, I hate that kind of crap" and "you're a f##ing a$$hole".  Do you really think it's acceptable to be called names?  Even if it's just jerk, or dumba## or similar.  It's not.  It's abuse.  It's never ok.[/quote]

It seems weird to say it when I’m not angry and my frontal lobe is fully functioning, but yes, I think it’s normal sometimes to call someone an a$$hole in the context of a fight.

If it’s a boundary for you, then it’s a boundary for you.  But I don’t think that it’s abusive in and of itself.  [/quote]

Ha, agree. I just posted. When I’m super mad, it’s all scrambled. [/quote]

I just read your post.  I’m glad someone else feels the same way!  
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