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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I’m in the minority here but I think you could reach out and say you heard her mention the kids being with their dad and you hadn’t realized they were separated. I’d offer to be a sounding board if she ever needed one and leave it at that. I think that’s offering support without prying. It’s not like you heard it through the grapevine.[/quote] Do not do this. If she has said nothing, she wants privacy. During my separation I was barely surviving and was keeping things very quiet. Someone from my extended social circle reached out like this and it was really unwelcome and upsetting. It made me feel like everyone was talking about me. If I had wanted to reach out and talk to this person about my situation, I would have done so. I did not want a "I'm here if you need to talk" message from this person.[/quote]
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