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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nope, but after a year it’s still fresh and he continues to gaslight me. I keep hoping for the moment it feels better, but it just feels more painful all the time. He got all the best years, all my sacrifices for his job and relocations, all the good. I for a wonderful daughter and all
The pain, a career I let stagnate because he needed to be away from home to work and f his AP.

So no. It will never happen. I could vomit every time I see him, although I try to play nice. I wasted my life on a piece of garbage. [/quote]

Very similar here. He took unilateral choices that basically rendered the past 10 years of my devotion and hard work not only useless but trapped me in a city I didn’t want to be in, with young children, away from family and support systems, because I was supporting his career. He started sleeping with his colleague and his breaking up the family coincided with the career success I helped him earn. He has no understanding of how it’s not just the pain of betrayal but also the downstream impacts of divorce that I’ll be living with for another 15 years and how he stole the best years of my life. (I’m making the best of it and can be happy just about anywhere, but these are my analytical observations.)[/quote]

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