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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD is 10. I was always the target of DH’s instability and rages, but that changed and he turned on her. He is very smart to never make physical contact, but what DD has experienced is certainly just as painful. What I am struggling with now with my attorneys is the expectation of 50/50 custody, especially because DD does not want to be around DH. At what age does DD have to be to assert preferences about who she spends time with and when? [/quote] You’re not divorced? Stay married and follow the advice of the poster above about keeping her busy etc. Do not listen to the people who say to get her a GAL etc. That won’t help and very often will trigger a very long, very costly, very stressful custody fight. People fail to consider how litigation adds an extra huge layer of stress, and there are no guaranteed outcomes. As long as dh isn’t physically abusing dd, he’s unlikely to get much less than 50 time. [/quote]
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