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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand this.  I do not have fights with my friends.  If someone wants to fight, they aren’t much fun to be around.  [/quote]

Op. Yeah, she’s argumentative. It’s fine. It was a fairly silly discussion but then turned ugly. [b]And fwiw she didn’t insult my husband substantively as some people want to assume (lots of negative trolls on here, it seems) but she made a flip comment about me having my husband to run to. Just dumb.[/b] And yea, she’s not married and has said she’s lonely, and I know there’s some resentment that I can’t always be there for her because I’m married and have my family.

She’s a dirty fighter. I’ve got to figure out if I can deal with it. I know it comes from a place of immaturity [/quote]

You said "Ironically I am not nearly as upset about anything she said about me, other than it was immature to bring up something from years ago that was really nothing. It was that she brought in my relationship with my husband." And then you call out people posting for assuming she insulted your husband substantively? Grow up. Also, pot, meet kettle. Someone else here is argumentative and it's not just your friend. Perhaps some self reflection would be healthy for you at this point. [/quote]

Again, you sound very healthy! [/quote]

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