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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sleeping with more than one person is totally gross whether you’re male or female. Ewwww[/quote]

Sleeping with 3 men, one after the other four months each in a year is fine, according to you. But sleeping with the same 3 men interspaced for the same 1 year is somehow wrong! [b][Yes, totally correct, that is wrong.][/b]

It is so much easier to compare and solidify your choice when you are dating 3 men and you are dumping the lowest ranked choice as soon as you find a better one. This is by far the most efficient and least stressful way compared to the time when I was dating one person at a time. 
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It's gross and disgusting, and you will find that men have choices, too. The "better ones" are not going to commit to you.[/quote]

I think commitment begins when a man offers to move in together. This basically means you are building a life together, in full control of each other's time etc. When people just "date" meeting a few times per week, there may be no true exclusivity, anyways. A partner can exit anytime, or lie about not seeing others. Thus I don't even expect it from men, I just tell them they can feel free to date anyone they want if they want.  I'm confident and only care about how he treats me, how he makes me feel in our relationship. If he sucks as a partner,  I don't care if it's because he's seeing other women. He won't be a relationship material for me, regardless of the reason.

If a man wants exclusivity, then we need to discuss renting an apartment together, joining out lives in some other ways than just sex. Sex is not a good reason to be exclusive or commit. Men don't value sex nowadays[/quote]

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