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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can someone please recommend how to overcome addiction to an addict? I became deeply emotionally attached to a man in the work environment, not knowing about his addiction to alcohol and drugs. Now that I know about that, both my therapist and my boss told me to stay away from that man because they wouldn’t touch him with a ten feet pole.
I’m staying away but it hurts like hell. I’m shaking and crying and can’t function normally. [/quote]

As an alcoholic myself, you sound incredibly unhealthy yourself.  I was never such a hot mess in the throes of my addiction.  Get yourself together before you date anyone.[/quote]
Maybe I’m unhealthy, but it’s also because I have to remain so composed among other people- family and coworkers and keep everything inside. DH (yes, I’m married) looks at me and says: “I’m glad that you are in such a good mood” - when I’m crying inside. So today I isolated myself from everyone and let myself grieve my pain fully. [/quote]

You sound like the type who enjoys staying in this mood/scenario in order to be the victim.  [/quote]
How do I enjoy it? We’ve had a great working relationship with that man, and I was devastated to learn about his addictions and other mental health issues. [/quote]

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