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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, my kids are preschoolers and I guess I'm "teaching" them to drink now, in that they know that alcohol is for grownups only, and that they see us never have more than one or two drinks, and usually in social occasions (like when we have friends or family for dinner or a party).

I'll start letting them have tastes probably around 12 (as my dad did) and their own drink once they seem to be done growing, around 15-17. With us, at home only. [/quote]

Oh, and I'll also teach them the key things in high school:

1) Never drive drunk or get in the car with someone drunk.  
2) Mom will always come and get you, just call.
3) Tell the police nothing. Tell the paramedics everything.
4) Never get drunk around people you don't know well or trust. You don't know anyone that well your first semester of college, so keep it to a beer or two. Wait until you have real friends you've known and bonded with for a few months and trust if you want to experiment with drinking more. And then look out for each other!
5) Watch your drink.[/quote]
Please be trolling. Your third point makes you sound like a gang leader with a heart of gold. I have been raising my kids with age appropriate lessons. As to drinking, the legal age is 21, we have alcoholics on both sides (my kids have seen some of them ruin gatherings), I will not allow, enable or approve any underage drinking, etc, etc. [/quote]

PP here. I can understand your position on not allowing, enabling or approving any underage drinking. It's not the path I will take, and it's not the path my parents took, but I get it.

But what's your problem with "Tell the police nothing. Tell the paramedics everything."? That's excellent advice, in all circumstances, not just around drinking. You should ABSOLUTELY tell your kids to tell the police nothing. I'm sorry, but unless you're in immediate physical danger, the police aren't your friends, and they're not there to help you. They will also lie right to your face to get you to confess to a crime. My friend's brother was arrested for public intoxication (out by the frats at his college) and the police did their "if you just tell us what happened we can help you" and he did and they threw the book at him. And by the time his parents found out, it was too late to do much. He didn't do jail time or anything, but tons of community service, and probation and it's on his record, which was avoidable if instead of telling the police the truth, he'd just said "I want to talk to my parents and I want a lawyer."[/quote]

Agree.  [/quote]

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