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[quote=Anonymous]I’m a 40yo recently divorced woman. Dating is no problem at all. I attract higher quality men now than I did in my 20s. Most of it is your attitude. You have to be in full baddie mode. I saw a video explaining dating as: Imagine you’re at a party and need to raise $10,000 for yourself. You’re going to come across as desperate and needy, begging everyone for money, accepting $1,000 here, $500 there, etc. Now imagine you’re at a party and must give away $10,000. It’s a completely different attitude. You’re going to be much more picky, take your time getting to know people, etc. So approach dating as if you are giving away $10,000. Also ramp up the self care. Go to the gym, eat healthy, get your hair and nails done, buy new clothes that make you feel hot (even if your body isn’t perfect). [/quote]
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