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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm in the middle of a divorce after a long marriage and assume that I'm just done.  Maybe it's because the divorce was not my choice, but my focus is trying to figure out how to be as happy as I can be in a situation that I didn't want.

If I met someone organically, I wouldn't necessarily run the other way, but I just assume it won't happen and have no interest in online dating, which seems like a dumpster fire and a likely to be a further assault on my self-esteem.  I seem to be a weirdo in this respect.  My divorced friends started dating right away.  I guess everyone is different.  Good luck, OP.[/quote]

You must be new on this forum because you dont have that ego that you are so special and can pick and choose any guy you want anytime you want.[/quote] Why are you so bitter? I'm recently single, older, and not desperate to find an upgraded man to complete me or fill in the financial gaps. I think there are plenty of fish in the sea. I think if I'm looking for a finance guy with movie star looks and a Delta 360 card or private jet, my pickings may be slim. Otherwise, it certainly doesn't feel impossible or unlikely that I will connect with someone along the way. It's not my main focus in life, though. And that's usually how other people come along. When you're happy in your own skin.[/quote]

I am a 48 years old divorced man. I am recently divorced and similarly wondering whether I'll find someone. I haven't been on OLD yet. I did cold approaching couple of times but I think I am too rusty lol.

I wouldn't mind saying someone like you, if you are opened to dating divorced men. Il admit it though some of us divorced men are really bitter. I am better now, but up to 6 months post divorce I found myself blaming women for everything I was in my incel phase lol. [/quote]

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