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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I am in a similar situation so I really feel for you guys. But I think you really need to be honest with yourself about who your husband is and what motivates him. If he secretly likes being nagged because he wants the shared responsibility of you telling him what to do vs him making the choice - then go that route. If he would benefit from some space and indulgence in his ideas for other financial opportunities/careers, try to support that even though it is scary for you. Try not to forget that his is super hard on you but more emotional for him too. I just think the most important thing is that you think about how your reactions can help him achieve the best possible outcome and if you are honest with yourself, you’ll know which route is best for him.[/quote]
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