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Reply to "People who are having extra-marital affairs, why not just be open about it?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When your spouse has unilaterally decided that your marital sex life is over, because she no longer desires sex, it's not a natural transition to open the marriage. She is still going to demand complete monogamy and cry fowl at any suggestion otherwise. She will not want her husband to see other women for sex for fear of losing him to someone who actually appreciates him and enjoys having sex with him, unlike her. She would rather he remain miserable in a sexless marriage with her until eventually he is old enough that his his own reduced sex drive matches hers. Men and women cheat instead of asking for an open marriage because they know how that will be received so it's better to not tip them off. The choices are, divorce, or seek what is missing from the marriage with someone else who is likely in the same situation.[/quote] So why not choice one-divorce? Cheating is at best a temporary fix, 95% of the time it will be exposed and instead of this being a divorce due to irreconcilable differences, its a divorce because you're a lying, cheating scumbag. If you have kids, that a the version they'll carry for the rest of their lives. [/quote]You pulled the 95% out of your a$$. You have no idea how many people never get caught and neither does anyone else. It's a temporary fix for sure. That doesn't make it the wrong thing to do at the time. People divorce when they are ready and they stay together, if only for a few years, for all number of good reasons and [b]an affair helps keep a person sane and happy through those times.[/b] [/quote] Can you explain why my cheating stbx is so miserable and angry? It puzzles me. He found somewhere else he wanted to park it, he filed for divorce once confronted, and has been on a rampage ever since. Doesnt seem sane or happy to me.[/quote]
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