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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also you probably should have figured this out before you decided to get pregnant, and don't even bother with it was a surprise crap you know damn well how babies are made.

Don't neglect your older kids or turn them into mini babysitters or parents because you like the attention of being pregnant, baby snuggles, can't figure out birth control/ self control and have visions of everyone being besties forever.

Do your best to give each kid individual attention . You'll still fail at this and 1 or 2 will be emotionally neglected but you should at least try.
You better have figured out how you're going to finance college for all 4 because your kids should not have to go into lifelong debt at 18 because you and your husband lacked self control.[/quote]

Why is it that the people who should spend the least time with their kids are always ranting about how others need to give their kids more attention?

I’ve read two paragraphs from you, and I can tell that your parents didn’t do a great job and you didn’t go to therapy.  No one is receiving any kind of emotional nourishment be being around you, pp, and you know it.  Take the plank out of your own eye, and get some help so that you can be emotionally available for your own kids, before you point out the splinter in OP’s.[/quote]

You aren't helping OP by pretending 4 kids is great. But you're probabya religious breeder and anti choice person given your pathetic quoting of scripture. No one needs more than 2 kids and definitely not  $+ it nevergoes well for all 4 kids.  But people like yourself and OP are too selfish to see it and rather live in lala land[/quote]

I know it must be hard to imagine the kind of person who could manage 3-4 children when you yourself can barely handle 2.  It’s okay, not everyone is good at all the things.  I’m sure you have other talents.[/quote]

There's the problem manage nobody should be managing kids.  Just make sure you leave enough money for your kids to have fully funded college and for therapy for your neglect because you wanted to manage 4 kids [/quote]

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