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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also you probably should have figured this out before you decided to get pregnant, and don't even bother with it was a surprise crap you know damn well how babies are made.

Don't neglect your older kids or turn them into mini babysitters or parents because you like the attention of being pregnant, baby snuggles, can't figure out birth control/ self control and have visions of everyone being besties forever.

Do your best to give each kid individual attention . You'll still fail at this and 1 or 2 will be emotionally neglected but you should at least try.
You better have figured out how you're going to finance college for all 4 because your kids should not have to go into lifelong debt at 18 because you and your husband lacked self control.[/quote]

Please consider getting help. You don’t have to have with these feelings. Of course you are entitled to your opinions, but it’s pretty clear you’re struggling with something that goes way deeper than some stranger having four kids.

I wonder if you came from a large family, felt neglected and financially insecure?

Or maybe you wanted a large family and it didn’t work out for you and so you convince yourself large families are worse off?

I’m sorry you’re struggling. Please don’t take it out on a stranger. She’s just living her life and asking for advice. <3[/quote]

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