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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also you probably should have figured this out before you decided to get pregnant, and don't even bother with it was a surprise crap you know damn well how babies are made.

Don't neglect your older kids or turn them into mini babysitters or parents because you like the attention of being pregnant, baby snuggles, can't figure out birth control/ self control and have visions of everyone being besties forever.

Do your best to give each kid individual attention . You'll still fail at this and 1 or 2 will be emotionally neglected but you should at least try.
You better have figured out how you're going to finance college for all 4 because your kids should not have to go into lifelong debt at 18 because you and your husband lacked self control.[/quote]

This attitude is disgusting.  It is pretty normal before every birth to start digging more into the logistics about how things are going to work.  No one judges first or second time moms for this.  You just don’t believe large families are okay.

The tyranny of the two kid family concept on here is gross.  Great if it works for you but it is not the only way to do families.  Also a certain percentage of these kids are (like me) inevitably going to grow up wishing they had more siblings.[/quote]

No I what's disgusting is just having another kid just because and then once you're pregnant  thinking oh how the F are we going to do this. That's wht's disgusting. But once again Breeders don't think that way. All they think about is sex, and tiny clothes an all the attention they are going to get from a new baby.  And people staring at them for their big family    Attention it's all it's about unfortunately those 4 kids never get enough attention. Ever.  But you ca keep lying to yourself and OP keep insisting that  Habing all these kids is great and there's o negative consequences.  [/quote]

You are grossly misrepresenting OP’s original post and question because you don’t like large families.[/quote]

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