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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, menopausal rage did not happen with me. In fact, these are the best years of our married life. I am SAHM whose kids have left the coop and DH still has a few years before retirement.

But, some of the reasons why there is no rage but a whole lot of love for my spouse -

- I am a SAHW. No pressure to go to toxic workplace enviornments. (Sorry, but if you have a great and happy workplace, you are the few lucky ones!). We have money.  No abuse, adultery, addiction issues.

- I have my own bedroom and own bathroom. We cuddle, we have sex, we nap together, but we have our own space.

- Domestic staff.  I don't ever want to tell anyone to do their share of chores at my house because no one ever does it happily and I don't care for the drama and the resentment.   So,  I have always had a weekly cleaner for the house.  I also have a landscape guy who mows every 10 days and does my seasonal maintenance for $$$$ extra money.

- We have enough money to outsource stuff.  I am a minimalist kind of person who does not care for clothes, expensive grooming, designer stuff for my own self.   So, I decided there is no need for me to save my DH's money and not outsource stuff.  My DH does not care about the money I spend in outsourcing things, but he will be pissed if I am a rage-filled spouse.

- My entire focus has been my kids and family, so since that all turned out ok,  I am most relaxed and chilled.

- I am not a hyper or a super-competitive person.  As long as I am able to meet my social and family obligations, I don't want too much.  I am not a striver. I am happy as a clam with my life as it is. [/quote]

So then this thread is not for you.  Please take your smug self to some other place.[/quote]
No, no, no.  This thread is a cry for help that I cannot ignore,  I want all of you to continue to redirect your menopausal rage towards me.  Here are the reasons why -
- Your poor husbands will get some relief.   
- I am quite indifferent to DCUM hate.  
- My post also has the inbuilt tropes of DCUM so the hate pathways are well-trodden, and the triggering will continue cocking.   WOHM vs SAHM,  Hate men vs love men.  Having domestic help vs no domestic help. Toxic workplace vs working for no pay.  You will realize that mouth-breathing, American middle aged body man, is not so annoying. 
- When all of you band together and abuse me, you will feel better about giving a fitting reply to my smugness.  Then you will feel light and happy, and you will find your husbands tolerable. Peace will reign again...[/quote]

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