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[quote=Anonymous]This would depend on a lot of different factors for me:

-is OP’s side of the family local, or does travel time & $ need to visit them need to be considered too?
-does the DH help as a full parenting partner during these visits, or does he fall into “relaxation mode” when he is around his parents 
-are the accommodations reasonably comfortable for OP? Do they have a bedroom for their use, or is it some sort of sofa bed in the den type of situation? 
-is the setup reasonably comfortable and convenient for the kids? No unsecured pool? Somewhat childproofed? In-laws have a pack n play, car seat etc or willing to rent or arrange for those items? Some toys for the kids? Those things help immensely and are not overly costly. 
-is the expectation to be together 24/7 or is there at least a little freedom and flexibility? Can OP run to the cafe down the street for coffee or go out for a run, or can she and DH take the kids somewhere for a few hours while ILs rest or do other things? access to borrow a vehicle? These little things can be sanity saving when staying with family.

It really depends on the setup and DH and IL expectations. This kind of trip/visit can be very tolerable or even fun, OR it can be really really unpleasant. Depends which this is. 
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