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[quote=Anonymous]9:24 I think you have an excellent point. I'm one of the PPs whose husband wants nightly sex and we had a tough time for so long because he wanted to be my #1 priority at all times even at the expense of my own needs. Couldn't understand why it would be fluid - him, the kids, me, job, house, family, friends - each would have their turn being the priority at times. It did strike me as really whiny that he would complain that I would go out with friends but not have sex with him that night bc I was too tired when I got home knowing I'd have to be up with the baby in a couple hours. In his mind, that was putting my friends and our kids needs above his (I don't think it occurred to him that my needs needed to fit in there somewhere too). Sure I was - THAT night. There were other nights I'd put his needs first, but it couldn't be every night. I don't think he really got that for a long time and to some extent he still doesn't. [/quote]
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