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Let me guess, it's the bc survivor again. I want to be polite since I tend to refrain from being nasty on here - but can you stay off this thread?  You seem to follow this thread closely for the sole purpose of picking apart my every post. This is not helpful. You telling me I'm an alarmist is also not helpful, even if that's how you see it. FWIW I haven't posted every detail from my mammo report. This is my journey and I'm handling it the best way I can. I don't know why anyone would be offended or bothered by my choices. I merely want to document this process for anyone else who finds themself in a similar position. I searched the archives and didn't come up with much, so I started this thread. The encouraging words and best wishes from other pp's have been great. It's awful to have to wait like this - even if YOU believe it's nothing, you're not my doctor or even a doctor at all I'm guessing. So why minimize my concern? As a mother of three I'd like to not focus on the what ifs, but it sure is hard. [/quote]

OP, I am not the BC survivor.  I have had 4 biopsies, all of which were benign.  I wish and pray for the best for you.

However, I don't think you get to determine who posts in your thread.  I realize that posting here is probably part of your coping mechanism, which is fine except that this is an anonymous board and Jeff lets people post in any thread they see fit, unless there is really a problem with abusive posts, etc.  People come to a thread like this out of concern or with information or just to see what's going on.  If you really need to document this process for yourself without responses, maybe you should consider a blog without comments, so you can just get your thoughts out.  I know for me, going into these biopsies, I could only handle so much information.  I did my research to the point at which I felt comfortable and I didn't want to hear anymore.  That was me.  When threads are posted to a bulletin board open to all, people can and do comment.  That is the nature of the beast.  You don't have to listen to anyone's experiences or advice, but other people still get to participate.

I'm horrified that your biopsy can't be done sooner.  I wish you well.  Breast cancer is an emotional topic.  People will post and they should.[/quote]

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