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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you should find a calm time to have a conversation with your husband about this, about the needs and expectations both of you have. Tell him you want to communicate openly and hear him and be heard, rather than have him being upset and showing through "sarcastic comments about needs not being met." Really try to avoid interrupting -- let each other have a say, and empathize. The communication breakdown seems like the bigger issue to me, rather than the actual number of times per week you have sex. Sullen little sarcastic comments will poison a marriage. Get it out in the open. FWIW, my husband wants to get off daily and I've made clear that I'm 100% okay with that, but it can't always be with me; I just do not have the energy or drive for that and I would start to resent it. We do it maybe 3 times a week, and the other 4 he's on his own. I give him time and space and my total blessing to watch porn online![/quote]
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