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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was 29 when I got married and a virgin.  My husband was 27 and had done everything except for PIV with other people.  All I'd done was kissing.  
Sex has been an issue for us our whole marriage in the same way that it is an issue for many people.  Everyone struggles with something whether it is sex, money, in laws, children, etc.  I have a lower drive than him and have a trauma history.  And now, yay me, I am in menopause and don't want sex at all.  
We tried therapy, we've tried a lot of things.  In the end, though, even though we are mismatched sexually, we love each other quite a lot and we accept this is our issue.  It's been nearly 30 years and we are relatively happy.  He's been an excellent husband to me and I try hard to meet him halfway when it comes to sex.

I don't recommend waiting til marriage (purity culture was my reason and I've since ditched the whole religion thing) but I honestly don't think it would have made any difference in my case whether or not sex was great or not.  [/quote]

If you want to give your libido a little push talk to your GYN about testosterone gel.  A pea sized amount can make a huge difference.  If you don’t care then you don’t!   Just mentioning it bc a lot of women even in 2025 don’t know that this is an option that helps during and after menopause [/quote]

+1.

This also increases energy and helps decrease brain fog.[/quote]

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