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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You get full custody. He isn't a safe person for your children to be around. He isn't capable of doing pick up and drop offs. .24 is not a couple of beers, he was smashed.

I'd negotiate with the house. It's better that the kids stay there. He can come for supervised visits at the home and hang out with them. I have no idea about buying it out or whatnot, but he better be face to the ground begging to do anything he can here. He really f***ed up. [/quote]
Unfortuantely, you don't just get to decide who has full custody. The default is 50/50 and he didn't have the kids with him so the DUI isn't child endangerment.[/quote]
You don't just get to decide, but you sure AF can use it as leverage. He can't fulfill childcare duties at this time. He could go to jail. He has issues with alcohol, and now with the police. These are major issues that should be brought up to adjust custody. Even if only temporary until he sorts it out. OP can say they are staying at the house for summer. He only lives a few blocks away so it's walkable, but he can't take them to school or anywhere. [/quote]

What’s the point of this approach? [/quote]

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