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[quote=Anonymous]Be wary of anyone telling you “always X over Y.” It depends on your temperament (do you like managing people? Are you good at being an employer?), your job (can you work set hours? Do your conference calls run long), your spouse’s ability to jump in for drop off/pick up/ nanny who called out sick; whether you have family or friends who can serve as last minute back up; how old your kid is; baby’s temperament; baby’s health; your home set up (do you WFH? Do you have a third car for a nanny?); and on and on and on. I am maybe a rare case but I much preferred daycare to a nanny. But by the time we switched to daycare it was my fourth child and she was three, so not the same as a baby. We could absolutely afford a nanny but my personality is not well suited to manage a person and my job was not well suited to deal with a nanny's last minute cancellations. And I hated sharing my house (I WFH and felt trapped or like I had to tiptoe around at lunch) and hated sharing a car with the nanny - ended up buying a third car for my convenience. [/quote]
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