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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The OP actually made me wince.  The language is so clinical and distant.  More about her own curiosity rather than any empathy for her DH or SIL.  [/quote]

Ok sorry - I’ll try to avoid using medical terms and dumb it down for you guys while making sure I convey some empathy in my posts so you know I have a heart.[/quote]

You're asking for our friendly advice AFTER you say you're going to dumb it down for us?

Gee, can't think why we wouldn't help you!

Every time you post, you keep revealing a worse side of yourself.
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Yeah, because I got a bunch of personal attacks on my character from people reading way too much into my post. No longer looking for friendly advice. [/quote]
If you're not going to learn how to communicate better on DCUM, you should just leave then. We don't like helping people who gratuitously criticize their dying SIL. And if you can't understand why acting in a cold and speculative way gets your motives questioned, then perhaps you're on the autism spectrum and don't understand the complexities of human emotion and social mores. You essentially admitted that you think it's OK to behave horribly as long as it's anonymous. That's pretty low, OP.

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LOL I’m not autistic but way to use this opportunity to insult autistic people. Yep, they’re horrible and low.  [/quote]

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