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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, are you sure you went to law school? You sound very weak and uneducated, especially for 37. I'm not buying it. "his side of town. Joined his church. Started spending all my time with his family." Troll. This is not someone who graduated from law school.[/quote]

This was my exact reaction. OP if you were smart enough to go to law school, you are smart enough to get out of this mess. Go back to work and divorce as soon as possible.[/quote]

I just posted, but I’ll also respond to this which is is that a divorce really doesn’t make things better because coparenting and logistics of housing and scheduling completely sucks the truth is you never get rid of the person if you have kids because the default is usually 50-50 unless the guy gives up custody, which is incredibly rare so a divorce doesn’t really make this better. It actually makes it worse in a lot of ways so don’t recommend divorce unless you know What it really entails. It’s not necessarily better. It’s just different. You have to pick which poison you can live with. Just getting a divorce does not improve the situation— far from it. I’m divorced and have been in coparenting hell for five years and I have eight years to go sometimes I think I should’ve just waited longer because it’s not really better. It’s just different, but I am glad not to be married to him, however, financially and logistically, it was easier before. We just ignored each other —that was easier than coparenting for the past five years and for the next eight.[/quote]

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