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[quote=Anonymous] Favoritism never bodes well for you or your survivors, they will feel you were dishonest and circumstances do change after your death. Do you really want to create ill memory of you and ill feelings between your children? Do you really "know" who needs what? Of course not. I would say if you gave to one while you were alive and not the other (my friends MIL babysat for her daughter but not her son, so MIL left more to her son upon MIL's death, since what it cost the son in babysitting had to come out of the son's child's own college fund, as MIL reasoned); it is more than reasonable to leave a little more for the other child/ren. I think some people would rather "tie up" the money than see the favored (floundering, underachieving, lazy, whatever) sibling get it. It is not unheard of. [/quote]
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