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[quote=Anonymous]My husband is unemployed longterm and my ILs don't ever mention it, at least not to me or in front of me. My parents mention it to me but not in front of him. Even then, they mention it only in the context of knowing I'm stressed about money or can't afford something we need. They say, "What about X....?" I wonder if OP wants ILs to basically shame or embarrass ther son to try to motivate him to look for a job. It sounds mean when you type it, but I would totally understand that approach. (I'm not saying OP is doing that.) I have often wondered if my ILs, including DH's close siblings, really don't ever mention it to him. DH and I don't communicate well so I don't even ask. I'm over it. It sucks, I'm sorry. I'm [/quote]
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