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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand why it even matters whether he’s straight. You’re not happy and satisfied in this relationship. If you’re not married, don’t have kids, aren’t financially dependent on him, why settle for a relationship with no passion, no intimacy, and no sex? You’re not chained to him. Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who brings passion and intimacy to the table — someone who seems so into you that you’re not suspicious that he’s only with you for ulterior motives?[/quote]

Gaslit anytime I suggest we may not be a good match. I guess if you’ve never been super gaslit over and over with someone speaking over you and being stubborn to get the answer they want you to have, and they make you think you’re crazy for thinking what you say, you wouldn’t understand. [/quote]

Nah, stop this victimese right now. If you've "suggested" you're not a good match more than once, you're part of the problem. If you don't think it's a good match, you can leave. He doesn't have to agree with you, and he may not. Doesn't matter. You get to nope out of any relationship at any time for any reason, and you're responsible for the decisions you make. Trying to force someone to agree with your choices/reasons before you do what you want/need to do is a really co-dependent way to live, and you are complicit in your own unhappiness if that's what you're playing at.[/quote]

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