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[quote=Anonymous]You need to approach this differently.  I get where you're coming from now, but you started off sounding like you were coming from a totally different area.

You need to sit down with your husband and tell him you're struggling a bit with adjusting to this new life.  That you feel like you have no time to yourself and you're always doing the things you listed.  He needs to step up and you need to get some time off.   You also need to talk to him about how you're feeling not that great about yourself and how you miss being able to go out and dress up and just feel good about yourself.  These are all normal and common things, especially since it sounds like you work from home so you're even more isolated.  That's what's really going on. Not this "wining and dining" BS.

Some of this will be solved by him stepping up more so you get some time for yourself.   And you need to make time as a couple.  But you need to also need to work on yourself to either join an activity or get together with friends.  You can't rely on your husband to make you feel good about yourself or for your socialization needs.  You should be able to get out and do things on your own.  Get dressed up and go to dinner or a show with friends.  [/quote]

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