Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Religion
Reply to "How do you deal with antisemitism?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm typically not personally/directly experiencing antisemitism in my everyday life. I'm not quiet about the fact that I'm Jewish and take opportunities to teach others about Judaism. I have a Jewish job, so anytime I'm talking about my work, it comes up. I give in Jewish amounts (multiples of 18) to end of school collections for teacher gifts, which most recently prompted a whole conversation with another parent about gematria (the number/letter system in Hebrew that ultimately leads to the idea that 18 = life). So, if someone is going to be antisemitic around me, I've established myself as someone who is going to teach something about Judaism when given the opportunity. I see antisemitism not directed at me pretty regularly. There's a mom at my child's elementary school who [b]wears a keffiyah and a hat with the outline of Israel in a watermelon pattern [/b]at school pickup everyday. I don't know her and my kid doesn't know her kid, so I leave it alone (I do give her some side-eye when she's not looking). Similarly, there was a family at a small local music festival last week wearing t-shirts with bombs over a watermelon Israel who I side-eyed and then ignored (beyond knowing where they were in relation to my family in case they became a safety concern). For a few months after October 7, I was seeing antisemitism masquerading as antizionism from some of my college friends online (stuff like "from the river to the sea" and calling the 10/7 attack "resistance"). They have mostly unfriended me at this point, which is fine. Don't read the comments from internet strangers, especially on Instagram; it's just a cesspool of antisemitic hate that will make you spiral and lose all faith in humanity. Antisemitism in the news (like the DC shooting and the Boulder fire-bombing) is hard, because it's not something I'm experiencing personally or directly, but it feels like an attack on us anyway. I usually share some news on my social media about it to raise awareness among the people who know me that this stuff is happening to Jews. There's not really more that I can do.[/quote] For what it's worth, I personally would not consider the bolded line to be an example of antisemitism, though I probably also wouldn't see much point in discussing my (complicated and largely extremely critical, but rooted in Judaism) opinions about Israel with this person.[/quote] That's a fair point and in a vacuum, they probably aren't. I think the keffiyah and watermelon Israel outline are symbolic of an ideology that calls to remove Jews "from the river to the sea" and to "globalize the intifada" - both of which are calls for violence against Jews worldwide. Without talking to the woman to get a sense of the nuance of her position, we'll probably never know. Given our current climate, I tend to err on the side of it being antisemitic if I were to try to scratch the surface, and just keep my distance.[/quote] I have a keffiya, and probably have the same watermelon sweatshirt (but I'm not the person in pp's comment). I have also removed vile posters by Patriot Front that were posted in my neighborhood - some of their posters were explicitly anti-Semitic. I took them down. They made me angry and sick. My keffiya was given to me by a former roommate that was an international student from the West Bank, a couple of decades ago. I wear it in honor of her and with respect to Palestinians. My watermelon sweatshirt with the outline of Israel... I mean look, I do not think Israel should have ever been created. Creating a new country that disregards the living population - and their land and rights, was an awful thing to do. I do not support theocracies, period. The idea of recreating an "ancestral homeland" from thousands of years ago is ludicrous. As is thinking you have some entitlement to that land because of alleged ancestors from thousands of years ago. I include my own ancestry in that - who also faced violence, war, and persecution. I find it insane to think that I should have a right to that land and resources, dozens of centuries later. Even 1-2 centuries later. But Palestinians? Those people are still there. It is still their home. I support the right of Jews to be free, safe, and respected everywhere, just as i support the right of all people to be free, safe, and respected everywhere. I am aware that real anti-Semitism exists (ie, Patriot Front), and we should be working to combat that kind of awful hatred. Isolating people into respective, divided "homelands" is not a lasting solution towards peace. It is the opposite of what achieves peace. We all have to learn to live together. If Israel were a democracy that had fully equal rights and rules for ALL people, that would be wonderful. But that's not what it is, and I will never support the country it is now, or was created as. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics